Celebrating the Valentine's Day
By Nida Iqbal
 Valentine's Day; a day long awaited  by the youths, young couples and single people of every age all around the  world. 'Why?' I ask. The answer is simple and we all know it.
 Because on this day some people get  to live out their romantic fantasies, their day dreams, which is a sickness in  many of us living in the unrealistic world of romantic films and novels. But  have we ever wondered what the actual significance of this day and its roots  are? This is something that I want all of us Muslims to ponder on.
 Some of us may be knowing it but  don't bother to share it with others, to make them aware of the harm it has been  doing to the young minds, young souls and most importantly the faith of so many  in our country.
 Valentine's Day's origins can be  traced to roman pagan festivals and shortly afterwards, to  Christianity.
 We can't really truly say what they  are as most of history has been mixed and merged and infiltrated but we can say  one thing: that they are certainly 'un-Islamic'.
 This reminds me of a verse from the  Holy Qur'aan: "And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be  accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers." [Aal  'Imraan 3:85]
 So, what we are doing here is the  exact opposite of this verse of the Holy Qur'aan, we are impressed by other  religions and their festivals and customs and in the process, we forget the  teachings of our own.
 This behaviour of ours was predicted  by Prophet Muhammad (Sall Allaho alaihe wasallam):
 "You will certainly follow the ways  of those who came before you, span by span, cubit by cubit, until even if they  were to enter a lizard's hole, you would follow them."
 We (the people present) said, "O  Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and Christians?" He said, "Who  else?!" (Sahih Bukhari)
 Festivals in Islam are clearly  defined and established, there is no room for additions or  subtractions.
 Festivals are an important part of  our worship and cannot be dictated by personal opinion, since they have been  prescribed for us by Allah and His Messenger (Sall Allaho alaihe  wasallam):
 'For every nation We have ordained  religious ceremonies which they must follow.' [al-Hajj 22:67]
 Now, what I want to advise my fellow  Muslims is that we should not accept congratulations on Valentine's Day, because  it is not a holiday or an Eid for the Muslims.
 If the Muslim is congratulated on  this occasion, he should not return the congratulations.
 We must explain the true nature of  this holiday and other festivals of the non-Muslims to those Muslims who have  been deceived by them, and explain to them that it is essential for the Muslim  to be distinguished by his religion and to protect his belief (aqeedah) and  faith (iman) from anything that may damage it.
 This should be done out of sincerity  towards the Ummah and in fulfilment of the command to enjoin what is good and  forbid what is evil.
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